TOLERATE!!!

One of my lecturer give me a question to answer. The question is if one of ur friend broke up with his girl friend after 3 years together how are you going to advice him?? Actually at first i wasnt really know how to answer it. I stunned for a while and think about it.Cause actually i wasnt really do well in handling my own relationship problem too. i always choose to avoid about this sort of things. But today when i really seriously think about this question. i answered this question. Actually in our long life time, there isnt everything also as what we expect and what we wish to have. Just like we ill have happy moments also sad moments. we will have problems in works or maybe family issue. in human nature life no one is perfect neither the world we are living in. Nothing is perfect in the world. What we should always have to do is to tolerate tolerate and tolerate. By tolerate we can only actually last long in our relationship or maybe in our career and many more. Is not really easy to maintain a relationship without tolerating.Even after marry is still a need to tolerate!! Tolerate is the key to maintain the relationship.if we couldnt learn to tolerate each other and care about each other feelings then how are we gonna stay together forever until the day we die?? i can say that is impossible!!! As i said nothing is perfect, and what we can really do is to learn from time to time and change ourself from time to time to be better and better. i strongly believe that what we do today is what we will get in future. everyone was born as a baby until a teenager until old age and leave the world. life is really short and we really hard to find a prson that we like and be together. so when really get into it we should learn how to accept each other and also tolerate. Appreciate and cherish things around us before everything is too late!!!!

-Vincent Lim Jun Liang-